Our Anniversary Vacation to St. John

Hi Everyone,

First off, Happy 3rd Anniversary to my incredible (and incredibly gorgeous) wife!

 

This is the first year in several that we are not taking a “vacation” to celebrate. 3 years ago we went to St. Lucia for our honeymoon:

 

2 years ago we celebrated our first anniversary in Riviera Maya, Mexico:

 

Last year we went to Jamaica:

 

But this year is different. Sure we are trying to save money (and obviously not earning close to what we used to), however, what sort of vacation would we want…WE LIVE IN THE FUCKING CARIBBEAN!

 

It made me think…if live is a vacation then who needs a vacation! People come from all over the world to vacation here. They spend a fortune staying in nice resorts with great views, eating awesome food in fancy restaurants, and taking picturesque boat trips on the clear blue sea.

Yet here we are…LIVING the vacation every day; and most importantly…not spending a fortune doing it. We have a great apartment with killer views, eat at all the great restaurants on the island, take boat trips with friends, and do it all without high-paying, soul-sucking corporate jobs to “go back to.”

 

It gets me excited to experience future locations, not as tourists but as travelers. We definitely have the Gold Coast of Australia in our not-too-distant future. But then what? New Zealand, Thailand, Ireland, Costa Rica??? The possibilities are endless.

So where will we go on vacation when our 4th Anniversary rolls around? The real question should be…What vacation will we already be on?

 

Until next time,

Mike

G’Day Mate! Australia Here We Come…

Hi Everyone,

The title of this post says it all…It is official that our next adventure will be in Australia!

It’s amazing how little I knew about Australia before making this decision, however, the clock was ticking to get the 1 Year Working-Holiday Visa so it made for a very easy decision (you must apply for and begin to use your visa before your 31st birthday – April 4, 2013 for me). Our visa was approved overnight and I have been trying to study whenever I can (although the real learning will come from experiencing life “down under”).

Did you know…

-Australia is a BIG country (6th largest based on total area), however, it is also the world’s smallest continent

-Australia is divided into 6 states, plus the Australia Capital Territory (surrounding Canberra) and the Northern Territory (in the north central sector of the continent)

-Australia is actually called The Commonwealth of Australia. The British colonized Australia after losing many of its colonies (and convict destinations) in the America Revolutionary War. Australia then became a Federation in 1901, however, the passing of the Statute of Westminster Adoption Act 1942 is often regarded as the moment of Australia’s national independence. The Queen’s (and British Monarchy’s) role is mostly ceremonial, however, there is a movement in Australia to abolish the Australian Monarchy and become a Republic.

-Australia is FAR (from basically everything). For example it’s a 4 hour flight to New Zealand and a 14 hour flight to the US (click the image to see the actual flight times)

-Australia has a VERY low population compared to its size (20 million people on 3 million square miles, compare to the United States’ 300 million people on 3.7 million square miles)

-Australia cannot defend itself militarily (40 ships in its navy compared to 2900 ships in the US Navy)

-Aussies drive on the left. Just like St. John except that their steering wheel is on the right

-Australia is home to INCREDIBLE wildlife – Just scan through this article to see some cool images

-Although Aussies speak English, I will basically have to learn a whole new language based on all the slang used in everyday conversations

-The average serving of beer is a 21 ounce Schooner (however, I’ve heard that beer/liquor prices are not exactly the same as $1 Happy Hour in St. John)!

And check out this itinerary for our voyage to Australia:

  • 3 Nights in San Francisco (where I will say “Welcome to The Rock!”)
  • 4 Nights in Oahu, Hawaii (we will be staying at a hostel near Waikiki beach)
  • 9 Nights in Fiji (island-hopping around the Yasawa and Mamanuca islands)

I’ll post more details about these awesome destinations as we begin to do more planning. What amazed me most is that by being flexible with dates and itineraries, we were able to travel to all of these destinations for a couple hundred more dollars than flying direct to Sydney. I guess it pays to be unemployed travelers with very open schedules!

Please let me know if you have been to Australia and have any tips or if you know anyone there. Alisa and I are open to any new experiences and meeting new people; and we are actually planning to spend a lot of our time doing Workaways and other exchange-type work. We will be there from mid-November 2012 until as late as mid-November 2013.

While it’s nerve-wracking to think of life as a backpacker (and without a “home base”), it’s also very exciting and I have Alisa to share the experience with. Plus, we can definitely find a place we like and settle down for a few months if we want to (and get some steady jobs too). Bottom line…and as we always say…if we don’t like what we’re doing, we can do something else!

Lastly, Happy 19th Birthday to my sister Cara! It’s crazy that she just finished her freshman year of college. But that’s how time flies…fast. Hope you are having a great bday Cara!

Until next time…

Mike

I Am Not Lucky That I Live In The Caribbean

Hey Everyone,

Every day down here, whether it’s while I’m working at the bar or just hanging out at happy hour, I hear the same thing from vacationing tourists…”you are so lucky, I wish I could do something like that.” To that I always say “So do it!

Life is short. Too short not to be happy. Maybe you want to experience the world or quit your job…or perhaps you just want to learn a new language or a new sport. Whatever it is, you actually have to DO SOMETHING to make it happen. Now I am not discounting the fact that luck may play a role. For instance, it was luck that Alisa was in the bar that night we met, however, it took me actually DOING SOMETHING to get her number, go out on a date two days later, and, well, the rest is history…

I am very grateful to have a partner with me for this journey (and a very organized one at that), parents who are supportive and let us keep our things in their houses and use their address for “official” purposes, and be healthy enough to go on these adventures. However, anyone with a clear goal can develop a path to make it a reality. The key is very simple…

FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU WANT!

Do you want to be a Vice President at a great company (or maybe even CEO)? That’s great…keep working hard, taking initiative, and dress well and offer good ideas. Do you want to travel to 50 countries? Well you probably need to figure out a way to save money for the journey or fund it as you go (our path of choice), determine where you want to go and when, and then book your tickets. You can worry about the details after that (I intend to go into these “details” in a future post). What you definitely don’t need is a rich uncle to fund your journey (yes I have been asked if I have one).

You also need to be creative. If your goal is to travel, for example, can you do your job virtually or consult remotely? Maybe you can learn a new skill to help pay your way (mine was bartending). Or perhaps you can sell something big to help fund your journey (Gary Arndt  sold his house in 2007 and hasn’t stopped traveling since).

To close, I will reiterate that you make your own luck. Sure some things need to go your way but that is irrelevant if you don’t take the first step and develop a plan to make your dream a reality. Life is short. Sure I am concerned that I don’t have a growing 401k or a successful “career,” but what makes up for that tenfold is the fact that I am enjoying every day of my life and making new memories all the time.

So, what exactly do YOU want? Figure that out and you’ll be one lucky bastard too.

Until next time,

Mike

Another Bucket List Item Down…Skydiving!

Hey Everyone,

I mentioned in my last post that Alisa took me Skydiving for my 30th birthday. It was AMAZING and I really loved it. She is such a great wife that she went along for the “ride” too, even though she really didn’t want to.

 

We went Skydiving out in Calverton, Long Island at Skydive Long Island. One of the highlights was the “safety video” we had to watch, which was basically the company founder saying something like “You agree that you cannot sue us, even if you get hurt or die and it is our fault. If you do decide to sue us, you cannot win.” Great motivation for first-time Skydivers!!

    

Then we suited up, and I really didn’t get nervous until the last minute or so in the plane, just as you know the red light is about to turn green and the big door is about to open…and then you are about to jump out of a fucking plane! Check out our videos from our jumps (these are links to Facebook)…Alisa’s face right before jumping is priceless (and just a note that the video loops about halfway through to show the jump twice):

Mike’s Skydiving Video

Alisa’s Skydiving Video

 

The freefall was amazing, but didn’t feel like I thought it would. I was imagining a stomach-dropping feeling that like a roller coaster drop…one that lasts for 60 seconds…but that really wasn’t the case. It was just an unbelievable rush of cold air and an incredible sensation (apparently if you look back at the plane you see just how fast you are falling, but without it your body has no way of realizing just how fast you are actually falling. Hence no stomach drop).

It was an amazing 30th Birthday present from the best wife ever…and one more item crossed off my Bucket List!

Until next time…

Mike

Our Visit to “The Mainland” (Part II)

Hi Everyone,

After our week in Virginia, Alisa and I hopped on a Mega Bus back up to our old stomping grounds…New York City! Thus began a week of unending 30th Birthday celebrations with tons of friends and family.

First was a few nights with Ale and Mo in their new UWS apartment. We got to meet their new Boston Terrior “Verdi”. We also spent my actual birthday night together doing exactly what I wanted…an All-You-Can-Eat and All-You-Can-Drink Sushi FEAST! It was everything I hoped for. Alisa also got me a Cold Stone Creamery cake, but after being in the fridge for too long it became a “Warm” Stone Creamery Cake (but still tasted f’ing delicious)!

 

 

The day after my birthday Alisa and I spent some time being “tourists in our own city.” We walked around Central Park and enjoyed not having a care in the world as everyone scurried around us…late for meetings or hurrying back from their lunch breaks. This small act of walking through the park made me truly grateful for the decisions we have made, and I couldn’t have been happier (not to mention having the company of my amazing wife)! Then we redeemed an incredible gift that she got for me – A “Beer Passport” to try every single beer from Little Town NYC (76 full size drafts). Alisa knows that I miss being able to try new beers on our tiny island in the Caribbean, so this was perfect. I intend to go through the whole passport when I get back to NY this fall (with some friends of course).

 

Then, slightly buzzed, we headed off on a nice walk from midtown to the East Village to my official 30th Birthday Party at Jimmy’s No. 43, a very cool craft beer bar in the East Village. We got there early (along with some other friends) and were able to check two more NYC bars off my list that I never had a chance to try out, McSorley’s Old Ale House (NYC’s oldest bar, established 1854) and Burp Castle (another craft beer bar). At Jimmy’s, I was able to reserve the back room (which they use for comedy shows sometimes). It was very bare bones and the perfect setting to catch up with good friends…which is exactly what we did!

It was such a kick-ass way to celebrate (or ease the depression) of turning 30 I couldn’t have asked for a better night. Thank you so much to everyone who came out…I hope you had as much fun as I did!

As the week progressed, the celebrations continued. We spent several nights on Long Island and I got to spend quality to with my mom and my in-laws. Then came the Passover sedars, which were more perfect opportunities to reconnect with family and share some good times. Also, more cakes were in order…

 

This amazing two week, 30th Celebration trip wasn’t over yet. Alisa surprised me (yes she kept it a surprise), with a fun day of… drum roll please… Laser Tag! Okay, not really (although that’s what she told me before the big reveal…what a jokester)…she told me that we were going to SKYDIVING (as if the 76 craft beers weren’t enough). That experience warrants it’s own post, so stay tuned (and I’ll try to include our videos too). Thanks again to everyone for helping me celebrate the Big 3-0. I really appreciate it!

Until next time…

Mike

Our Visit to “The Mainland” (Part I)

Hi Everyone,

Long time no post…sorry about that and I really plan to get better with updating this blog. As you can see I have also changed the format around and I hope you like it.

About a month ago, Alisa and I took a two-week “vacation-from-a-vacation” and went to Virginia for a week and then New York for a week.

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We went to VA to visit the Fonvielle clan and meet our new niece, baby Ava!

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And of course to hang out with Brody, who celebrated his 2nd birthday while we were there!

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We also got some quality time with my Sis-in-law and Bro-in-law, Lauren and Jeremy. Alisa and I actually redeemed our “parting gift” from being on (and losing miserably on) “The Newlywed Game” TV show several months ago. The prize was a gift card to Omaha Steaks and here is the Surf & Turf feast we got to enjoy by making fools of ourselves on national TV:

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It was a great week of relaxing and spending time with the family!

Until next time (when I’ll cover the NY part of our trip)…

Mike

Things to do in St. John

Hi Everyone,

Just today I saw another message like this: “Hey Mike, I am coming to St. John in a few weeks with so-and-so. Do you have any suggestions on restaurants, activities, bars, etc.?” Since I seem to get this fairly often and also like to share this info with friends and family who are coming to visit, here you go!

Things to do in St. John, US Virgin Islands

(*Note – this list focuses on Cruz Bay since that is where I live. I mention some things in Coral Bay but I have simply not spent nearly as much time out there)

Bars: Happy Hour – Alisa and I are big happy hour fans and you can’t go wrong with $1 Happy Hour (well drinks and certain domestic beers) from 3-6pm at Woody’s or Castaways. Both also have pretty good bar food (try the nachos at Castways – it’s a huge plate; and the blackened fish aka Sharkbites and boneless Buffalo Wings at Woody’s). I’d also recommend The Lime Inn which offers 1/2 off the entire bar from 3-6p. Not as cheap as $1 drinks but you can get an awesome specialty drink (Lime & Coconut, Painkiller, Bushwacker, Pina Colada, etc.) for $4 and top shelf liquor for around $5. Joe’s Rum Hut offers $3 you-call-its from 4-6pm, meaning anything you order is 3 bucks…so be creative (think Patron Margarita). This town is definitely a drinking town!

Bars: Late Night – Head to Beach Bar to see what band is playing. Then stop by Castaways which also has nightly events ranging from live music to Karaoke to DJs. Lastly, round out the night at The Quiet Mon to chill out with a bucket of beer or pint of Newcastle.

Bars: Misc – Across the street from Uncle Joe’s and the Post Office you can grab a fresh Coconut filled with Rum for $6 during the day…delicious. Sunday Brunch at Rhumb Lines is amazing. Besides fantastic food, they offer an all-u-can drink serve yourself Bloody Mary and Rum Punch bar…just don’t plan anything too intense for afterwards. Lastly, no trip to St. John is complete without a visit to The Tap Room. The flagship brewpub of St. John Brewers, this is the place on-island to get a cold draft beer. Whether it’s one of their own signature brews (in addition to homemade Root Beer – try a rum and root beer – and Green Flash energy drink) or any number of other delicious craft beers, you will not leave disappointed. The owners/brewers are also building a brew-trailer in the back parking lot so visitors will have a first hand look into the brewing process.

RestaurantsOcean Grill, Zozo’s (try the Papardelle and Pork Chop), Rhumb Lines and Lime Inn (famous for fresh fish and lobster) are all fantastic (I bartend at Lime Inn and Alisa is a server and hostess at Ocean Grill). You can’t miss BBQ Ribs at Uncle Joe’s. It’s right near the Customs Building and across from the post office…small restaurant with BBQ Ribs and Chicken.  Donkey Diner in Coral Bay is fantastic for breakfast if you want to make the trek out to the East End…and while you’re there plan a hike then come back to Skinny Legs for a well-deserved burger and (several) ice cold drinks.

Beaches and Snorkeling – You really can’t go wrong with any of the North Shore beaches. Hawksnest and Honeymoon are great for relaxing, Trunk Bay is great for its big beach and world-famous snorkeling trail (just don’t go on heavy cruise ship days…the cruise ship schedule is posted in the local newspaper), at Cinnamon you can rent a Standup Paddleboard at the watersports shop there…very fun way to explore and relatively inexpensive, and Maho is also very relaxing and lately there has been sightings of huge Manta Rays (Alisa and I both swam with a 15′ Manta at Maho and Francis).

Hiking – We also love to hike and I highly recommend the Caneel Hill trail. There is an observation deck at the top with 360 views of the island, as well as Tortola, Jost Van Dyke, St. Thomas, and even St. Croix on a clear day. A great loop (and a long hike) is to take the trail from town right next to Mongoose Junction shopping mall, up to the top of Caneel, over to Margaret, down to Caneel Bay Resort, through the resort to Honeymoon Beach, then Upper Lind trail back into town. One of my favorite trails is Reef Bay. It’s all downhill through lush forest to the beach, with a side trail at the bottom to ancient petroglyphs (like hieroglyphics) and a small fresh-water waterfall. Then you get your exercise hiking all the way back uphill! I recommend reading (or borrowing) “St. John: Off the Beaten Track” by Gerald Singer for details on all the trails and beaches (as well as some great history too).

Other Activities - I have to mention Kekoa, the catamaran that Alisa works on. It’s a custom-built wooden boat, built by the Captain and his brother. Every time I have been out on Kekoa it has been amazing. They do trips around St. John and to the British Virgin Islands. Also, you can check out Annaberg. This was a fully functional sugar plantation, run by slaves in the 1700s. The ruins are still in incredible shape.

Renting a Car – It is always nice to have your own car if you plan to do a lot of exploring (and driving on the left side of the road is easy). You can get by with taxis and hitching (yes it’s safe here), but again, much more convenient with your own truck. The only downside is parking in town at night…definitely cab it if you plan to have a night out in town.

I hope this helps you plan your trip and please let me know if I missed anything!

Until next time…

Mike